In God We Trust. These are the words inscribed on American currency. Our forefathers knew something special, spiritual and perhaps mystical when they adopted these words. Have we forgotten what they knew? Have we decided to live our lives by standards that lack trust in God and in any creative power including ourselves? I believe [...]
Bullying: 7 Ways to End it Now!
March 26th, 2013 
PossCoach Bullying gets so much press these days. That’s a good thing! To shine the light on the darker aspects of our human experience like bullying helps us to create positive shifts both individually and collectively. Bullying is an esteem issue. Bullying is about being convinced that ‘for me to feel good, I must make you [...]
Goals Made Easy
March 11th, 2013 PossCoach Goals. Having them and getting them. We are all so conditioned to believe that having goals and getting them are essentials to our happiness and success. For nearly 40 years, I had this belief. Over the last ten years however, I have learned that having goals and goal setting are not necessarily prerequisites for happiness [...]
Knowing the True Meaning of Personal Growth
February 21st, 2013 PossCoach Personal growth. What does it mean to you? Does it scare you? Is it a place you rather avoid or not even deal with at all? Is it some type of process or cure that will make you a better person? Is it a journey that in the end will give you happiness and fulfillment? [...]
Secrets to Finding True Love!
February 14th, 2013 PossCoach We’re going to talk about true love, but not necessarily in a way you may think! Visualize a horse with a carrot dangling about a foot in front of it. That’s how we get the horse to move in a forward direction. Now imagine that you are that horse (no insult intended) and the carrot [...]
Your Life Purpose: Acknowledging Your Genius!
January 23rd, 2013 PossCoach Life purpose. I recall several years ago coming across a quote that had a profound effect on me and ultimately changed my life and how I looked at my life purpose. It was written by author Richard Bach who wrote ‘Jonathan Livingston Seagull’ and ‘Illusions.’ It went something like this: ‘Here is a test to [...]
Jump from the Fiscal Cliff into the Spiritual Pool Now!
January 10th, 2013 PossCoach Fiscal cliff. I was probably the last person to learn about the latest fear-based sound byte from our politicians and our media. I confess: I have not watched a news broadcast or read a newspaper in nearly 15 years. Why would I? The news hasn’t changed much over the last 50 years except that it [...]
Stress Free Holiday -Useful Tips
December 17th, 2012 PossCoach Stress Free Holiday Tips to add more peace, love and joy to your holiday season! Sound good? How do you do it? Wow, can you believe it!? It’s the holiday season again. So it’s either panic, stress and chaos for you. Or is it the time for love, peace and joy? After all, it is [...]
Change Your Story to Change Your Life!
September 26th, 2012 PossCoach What is your story? What is the story you tell yourself, in your mind, about yourself day in and day out? The story you tell yourself in your mind and tell others, is ultimately how you live your life. If you want to change your life, you have to be willing to change your ‘story.’ [...]
Is Your Relationship/Marriage Made in Heaven or a Living Hell?
July 29th, 2012 PossCoach As a Relationship Coach, I absolutely love counseling couples! Why? Because I enjoy listening to both his and her version of what’s ‘really going on.’ Each one, comes to their sessions believing they know what’s ‘wrong’ with their relationship/marriage. I always sit there with a grin as they each proceed to enlighten me on what [...]
Begin to Eliminate Worry from Your Life Now!
July 2nd, 2012 PossCoach Have you ever asked yourself, ‘Why do I worry?’ Have you ever asked yourself, ‘What is worry and why does it play such an important role in my life?’ These questions, in and of themselves, open what I call ‘portals to awareness and change.’ From a life coach perspective, awareness is the first key step [...]
Relationships: What Really Matters Most!
June 13th, 2012 PossCoach Relationships matter! As a coach to individuals, couples, families and businesses, I am, on a daily basis, assisting people to create solutions for their most challenging relationships. I took time out this weekend, or so I thought, from coaching, to go to my 40 year reunion of my elementary school in New York City. Most [...]
Addiction and How to Heal It: The Door to Peace and Happiness
March 20th, 2012 PossCoach Addiction manifests in a variety of ways. Addictive behavior and how to overcome it has become an integral part of the human experience over the last century. From 12-step programs to rehab centers to electric shock therapy, there have been a variety of approaches to curing them. Though some of these approaches have resulted in [...]
Love? What’s Love Got To Do With It?
March 1st, 2012 PossCoach Love. A four-letter word that turns our insides out or our minds upside down. Either way, I have witnessed over the years that love has been mostly over-rated, under-rated, misinterpreted and used as a formidable disguise for people to get away with a lot of physical and emotional crap. Know that I am not down [...]
Whitney Houston: She gave us more than just talent
February 14th, 2012 PossCoach The press and media will tell you all about the talent that Whitney Houston personified and how tragic her passing is to the public and all of her fans. What they won’t share with you is the living, breathing model Whitney Houston exemplified as a person whose tremendous fame, fortune and success completely contradicted how [...]
Parenting: If I Had a Child
February 13th, 2012 PossCoach Knowing what I know about human behavior, human nature and the dysfunction that goes along for the ride, I view parenting as a misinterpreted and misunderstood role. No degrees or certificates are given to people to prepare them for the role of parenting. Nor are there awards given out for completing decades of parenting that [...]
The Resistance Factor
January 30th, 2012 PossCoach I’m willing to bet the farm (even though I don’t own one) that emotional resistance plays a major role in your life and you may not even know it! Just say the word ‘resistance.’ Now say it slowly. The word has a heaviness to it. To me it is reminiscent of when I’ve stepped onto [...]
